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Dear Bossip,

I’m 23 years old and I have a 3year old daughter.

I’ve been with the father of my child for 10 years and he has been incarcerated for the past 3 years and will be released in June of next year.

The thing is I’ve been sleeping with my next door neighbor for a year and I’m madly in love with him. He also has a 3 year old daughter and our kids play together. When we first met he told me that he was not interested in a serious relationship and was no longer with the mother of his child and I believed him.

A few months later I found out that they were still a couple and were living together but when I asked him if this was true he denied it. He then came clean and said that they were working things out for the sake of their child and that he still wants to casually sleep with me. He has said on many occasions that he doesn’t want me seeing anyone else but he knows that I will be with the father of my child when he gets out. We still plan on sneaking around when my boyfriend gets home but I want more from him. The way I feel for him I’ve never felt for anyone else not even the father of my child, but he just won’t commit to me and I can’t trust him.

Recently, at a party, I got into a confrontation with his girlfriend because they were making out in front of me and I felt disrespected because he saw that I was there and acted like he didn’t care. He vowed to never speak to me after that incident, but that was because the bitch was there but a week later and he was at my door and we’re now sleeping together again.

It seems like he’s never going to leave her alone and I just can’t continue seeing him if he doesn’t, but I don’t know how to let go because I really love him. Should I stay and hope that he changes or just leave him alone? – In Love With My Neighbor

Dear Ms. In Love With My Neighbor,

Dead!

I can’t this morning. I just flatlined! Jesus be a lifeline and resuscitate me.

Girl, I….Just…Can’t!

You see, ladies, this is what happens when you have no self-respect, poor self-esteem, and no values or morals. This is what happens when your mother’s don’t show you how to be respectable women and ladies. You don’t know how to preserve yourselves for greatness and recognize the beauty and power within you. You rely on men to give you value and worth, and when you don’t know any better, then you allow yourself to be misused and abused. And, if you don’t think of yourself as worthy, valuable, and respectful, then a man will treat you like the common trash that you are. Spreading your legs because you equate sex with love. Letting men use your womb as their personal dumping ground. Just a wasteland of infested and overpopulated semen wasting inside you.

Now, ma’am, what is the name of the projects you live in? Because I know you don’t own a home, and neither does your neighbor, and I’m certain with your man being in prison there is no financial stability in the home or support by him (that’s obvious), and your neighbor you’re sleeping with is definitely not giving you any money, thus, this leads me to believe the welfare system is helping to fund your situation. You see, readers, this is our tax dollars hard at work. Ghetto babies and project hood rats with no ambition in life other than to sleep around and fight over dirty d**ks. I bet he doesn’t even take his nasty ass boxers off when he climbs on top of you. He just does his business and pulls his pants up and leave. You’re just nasy!!

Please dear lawd (throws hands to the sky) don’t let you procreate and have more children.

I really don’t understand the fascination you women have with sharing and having community d**k. And, then you hoes get upset, (Yes, I said hoes because you’re sleeping with your neighbor, who lives with and has a girl, and while your so-called man is in prison, and I know you’re not getting nothing out of sleeping with your neighbor, except his seeds being spilled in you and on you), when you discover the bum ass dude you’re spreading your legs for is still sleeping with his baby momma. The man told you from the jump that he was not interested in a relationship. What part of that did you not understand? What part of that was unclear? He told you upfront that you were a jump-off, a side piece, a chick to run up in and bang out. You are nothing to him, don’t mean anything to him, and will never be anything to him. Do you understand that?

You know what, I can’t believe you wrote in with this bull-ish, for one, and then for two, you have the gall and audacity to say, “The way I feel for him I’ve never felt for anyone else not even the father of my child, but he just won’t commit to me and I can’t trust him.”

(* - *) ( O - O ) You get a double blank stare.

The hell you mean you don’t understand why he won’t commit to you, and that you can’t trust him?!?! Are you freaking kidding me right now? You truly cannot be serious!!! You are the tramp sleeping with someone else’s man, and you got a man. You are the tramp who said that even when your father’s child comes home from prison you and your neighbor are going to continue to sneak around and sleep with one another. You are the tramp who said, “Recently, at a party, I got into a confrontation with his girlfriend because they were making out in front of me and I felt disrespected because he saw that I was there and acted like he didn’t care.” Uhm, sweetie, how can you, the jump-off, the sidepiece, the hoe, confront his woman when they are in a relationship? He made it abundantly clear from the beginning that your relationship with him was that of a casual sexual nature. It did not, and should not have extended beyond the walls of the bedroom. What part of this are you not comprehending or understanding?

Then, afterward, you continue to sleep with him? This is what happens when the stupidity, ignorant, and dumb gene mutate. You are the direct result of this cross-breeding and I pray for GOD that you didn’t pass it along to your daughter. And, I hope your daughter does not grow up and repeat your behaviors. You know what, I’m calling child protective services. YUP! I AM! So, when they show up, please know that I called them. I do believe that your daughter is in serious harm and danger of learning how to become a trick like you. And, I’ll be damned if I know this little girl can be saved and I didn’t do anything about it.

Moving on! I’m sending the short yellow bus to your home to pick you up, and then I’m sending you across country to my school: THE ACADEMY FOR TRICKS, TRAMPS, AND HOES WHO DON’T KNOW THEY ARE TRICKS, TRAMPS, AND HOES.

Here is a list of classes you will be enrolled in:

Don’t Wait For A Man Who Is In Prison Because The Rainbow Is Enuff

Whore-ology 101: Tramps, Hoes, & Sluts: Why Sleeping With Another Woman’s Man Is Trifling, But You Can Change

The Power of Community D**K and The Psychotic Affects It Has On The Mind (Required by all new students)

When A Man Tells You He Doesn’t Want A Relationship And He Wants To Casually Sleep With You: Understanding Your Role As A Side Piece and Jump-Off (Required by all new students)

Look, until you enroll in my school, and after you have completed the first year, there is nothing I can say to you or help you understand. You clearly have no comprehension skills, or abilities to think rationally with the common sense that God gave you. It’s so sad that you have allowed yourself to be deduced to a random basic jump-off, and you have nothing to show for it. You’re holding on to this relationship with a man who has been in prison for the past 3 years, and hoping when he comes home that he will be a father to his child, and in a committed relationship with you, a hoe, who is sleeping with the next door neighbor. I just want to know why are you holding out waiting for a man who has been in prison for 3 years?

So, what’s going to happen when your baby’s daddy discovers your charade and infidelities? Have you thought about that? Chile, if he catches another case and is sent back to prison I will know why and I will truly understand. He’s going to stomp you and your neighbor into the ground – beyond six feet.

Please, stop sleeping with your neighbor. No good has and will come of it. He is not going to change. He is not going to leave his woman to make you his woman. He is player, a hoe, and a bum. He can’t and will not add anything to you and your life. He is taking from you. And, when someone continues to take from you without adding or giving you something in return, then they are spiritual and emotional vampires. They are sucking the life out of you. And, he has truly sucked the life out of you and you’re just a shell, a body, with no soul. That’s what happens when you let a man use you. Now, his spirit has inhibited your body and you can’t even think straight. Hell, it’s not like you ever thought straight. I bet every man that has come into your life has used you and taken from you. You’re just a zombie taking up space.

I can’t believe that you asked me if I think your neighbor will change and if you should stay with him. Girl, please go to the nearest cliff and just jump. Do us all a favor! I’m done. Seriously, I can’t with you! – Terrance Dean

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